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Ten Minute Musings #11

Note- today was the last day of class. I’m still going to try to do the 10 minute musings, but today’s the last time I did them officially.

6/28/2012
10 minutes

Working with incoming first year students this summer has reminded me of how naïve eighteen year olds can be. They think they know everything, that they’re unstoppable, and that they’re about to rule the world during their college years.

They are so…young.

I’d love to hold a session for incoming students where I tell them nothing but the truth. College isn’t like the movies. You may or may not talk to the people you meet on your first day of college  at the time of graduation. Friendships will be made, and friendships will be lost. Love, or something like it, could come into your life when you least expect it, in the most surprising form. You may also lose that love if you happen to encounter it. You could potentially experience death firsthand. Not everybody parties their asses off every night of the week… and the people who do end up being Those Creepy People Who Are 45 And Living in Frat Houses. Sometimes dining hall food blows, and other times it’s amazing (especially if you’ve happened to experienced The Ramen Noodle Diet). Clubs & activities are fun, but sometimes you’ll be too lazy, overworked, and exhausted to do anything but lay in your bed watching re-runs of mindless television shows.The bottom line is no matter what happens, college is not a tv movie. It’s not all fun and glorious and The Time of Your Life.

But what do I know? I’m not an eighteen year old. I never thought I was unstoppable and conquering the world when I was a first year…

I obviously never tried to dress like an 80′s chick for a party my freshman year of college…

10 Minute Musings #10

6/26/2012
10 minutes

And when the night is cloudy there is still a light that shines on me
Shine until tomorrow, let it be
I wake up to the sound of music, Mother Mary comes to me
Speaking words of wisdom, let it be
Let it be, let it be, let it be, yeah, let it be
There will be an answer, let it be
Let it be, let it be, let it be, yeah, let it be
Whisper words of wisdom, let it be

As long as I can remember, quotes from other people have been a quintessential part of my life. While I may not always listen to advice from others, I usually write their advice down. I also have filled notebooks upon notebooks of quotes that friends, co-workers, and co-workers have said. Words can truly make the difference in someone’s life. Sometimes, a simple phrase might just serve as the catalyst in someone’s decisions.

A few months ago, when I had first launched my site, I attended a Post Secret event. At the start of the event, Frank looked at everyone, commented on how amazing it was to see everyone there, and said, “How many of you have sent in a secret?” My hand went up, and because I was in the front row, he asked me how it felt. “Amazing!” I instantly replied without hesitation. He handed me a copy of “PostSecret: Confessions on Life, Death, and God.” I took it and put it down by my bag. Later in the program, Frank said, “Whenever I speak at a university, I like to leave a secret message somewhere on campus for someone to find. I already left it here. (At this point, everyone sort of glanced around from their seats.) Only one person has it.” Frank then looked at me, smiled, and told me to open up the book he had given me earlier. “I want you to stand up, and read this loud enough for everyone to hear,” he told me. “The World Needs to Hear Your Voice!” I read, choking a bit as the words sunk in.

I had just started my site, and I was wondering if my dream of being a writer was pointless. His words gave me the motivation to continue with my dreams. At the end of the night, I told Frank about GingerSass and why it was so meaningful to me to have gotten the book with his message in it. His response? “Wow. You were meant to receive it. I can’t wait to see what you accomplish with your voice!” Having this message from one of my biggest inspirations in the world really means so much to me. I feel as if my destiny and my dreams in life are actually starting to coincide, and that, above anything else, is an extremely phenomenal feeling.

I rarely take words of wisdom seriously, and although I usually write them down, I usually “let it be” and forget about them. Frank Warren’s words of wisdom have stood by me, and I have let them be besides me as my dreams have grown over the past few months. My writing identity has flourished, and so has my site. I finally understand the Beatles’ song– in order to listen to words of wisdom properly, I need to let them be and grow on their own. When they’re finally fully developed, my dreams will manifest themselves on their own… if they’re meant to be.

Happy 3 months!

WOWSERS! There are 917 people following GingerSass.

Let’s take a moment to commemorate the awesomeness of this fact.

………

There have also been 3,654 views since GingerSass.com went public 3 months ago.

Quoting Liz Lemon…

“What the what?!?!?!”

That’s about 1,200 views per month!!

I’m so overwhelmed by the amount of support and viewership GingerSass has received. I know I promised a video blog for this momentous 3 month milestone, but only one person sent in her lesbian dating tips and tricks… plus life has gotten crazy. Soooo the video blog has been delayed a bit.

Thank you all for reading, putting up with my craziness, and following me on Facebook and Twitter!

Tomorrow, I start a new summer job working with the people who put together the inspiration for my first GingerSass post. I’m super excited. Wish me luck!

<3

Coming out as a blogger to my family

So, I did the impossible the other day. I came out as a blogger to my family. Or, rather, I was outed as a blogger.

Now, let me explain to you that, before the outing, I had been religiously looking up ways to tell my family that I’m a blogger. Through my hours of googling I discovered that there aren’t really any articles or posts on how to tell your family you’re a blogger.

In fact, I could only find one.

It wasn’t even an article.

In fact, it was a fabulous email sent out by Ashley at Writing to Reach You that clearly spells out her blogging ways to her family, and why she has run a blog for the past 3 years.

The most relatable quote from her email was “There’s no good reason I haven’t told you about it before…” That pretty much sums up my blogging life in regards to who I’ve shared GingerSass with.

A few days ago, my mom was looking for something in my room while I was at class, and she noticed a box next to my bed. My business cards were poking out of it, and curiosity got the best of her. She paid GingerSass a visit, and when I got home, there was a list of questions waiting.

It actually was exactly like the first time I came out, except she hadn’t found letters about a girl, and I wasn’t being outed as a lesbian. My mom was also really excited and proud of GingerSass. (It took her a bit to come around to me being lesbian!)

I told Mom all about GingerSass, my fan base, how GingerSass came to be, and told her about raising funds to go to BlogHer ’12.

After all was said and done, there only seemed to be one thing that mattered to Mom. She couldn’t believe that Cady McClain’s alter-ego, Suzy F*cking Homemaker, liked the GingerSass Facebook page and gave me some advice.

“DIXIE is a fan of yours?! As in Cady McClain?! WOW!! I’m so proud of you!!!”

The moral of my coming out as a blogger lesson is if Cady McClain “likes” your Facebook fanpage, Mom will be happy with your celesbian blogger endeavors.

Oh, and for those of you wondering, Dad is proud of it as well, Broface asked me a few questions and said, in true brother fashion, that “Gingers Ass” was cool, and my sis said it was “cool” that I had a site.

I’m still waiting for the dog’s verdict.

My Mooshkie Man would rather cuddle with his over-sized flamingo toy than tell me if he likes GingerSass.

What the what?!

So a few weeks ago, as a joke and a social experiment, I posted a personal ad on CL looking for my Liz Lemon.

(Click here to see that post.)

The ad read:

I’m a SWF full time grad student looking for my Liz Lemon. Be a nerd. Play The Sims. Have a love of food. Read obscure books. Don’t be afraid to be awkward. Save truly awkward scenarios by being even more awkward and embarrassing yourself. Be that endearing nerd that everybody loves, and win me over with your quirks. Be Liz Lemon… but with confidence. (Because, you know, you’re awesome if you’re a real life Liz Lemon.) I want to go there.

Ask me out, and let’s go grab some coffee, people watch, and make up stories about the people as we watch them. Who knows? Maybe we’ll find we love each other’s company and get to know each other better. If not… blurgh. 

Hope to hear from you soon :)   

I really wanted to see what sorts of people would respond to a CL post from someone looking for a Liz Lemon. (Because, at the end of the day, isn’t that what we all want?)

So far, I’ve gotten one message from a guy offering to have me in a threesome, one chick that sounds like Tracy Jordan (“hey whats up babygirl just passin thru making new friends..what do u say we get together n have some fun? ;) ” ), quite a few chicks looking for their first time with another woman, a few people who did not understand my 30 Rock references and thought I was a sad, pathetic soul looking for pity/ a sugar mama, and, finally, someone WHO ACTUALLY UNDERSTOOD THAT MY PERSONAL AD WAS A JOKE! She was snarky, made 30 Rock jokes about my ad, and asked if I could tell her a little bit about the real me.

I think Liz Lemon may have just met her match.

What the what?!